Everything means nothing

What are you looking for?
找合得來旅伴、找一起做報告的group member, 找有識人之明的老闆、找可以牽手過一輩子的人

然後發現

要找到符合期待的人其實比登天還難，那些為你量身打造的幻想其實根本不存在

你的旅伴可能精力旺盛，但卻對你想去的地方興趣缺缺，或他只想很優閒的在Hotel睡到自然醒，懶得起個大早跟你去探險

你的team mate可能很有責任感，但相對的他卻希望你凡事依他指示進行。或是像我中東的同學每次meeting都找不到人，到最後來一封可憐兮兮的email說他不會作然後剩下的倒楣鬼就得幫他擦屁股

你的老闆可能在當初面試你的時候笑容可掬讓你誤以為他是個伯樂，但開始上班後才發現你不過就是個位他賣命的卒子，然後他只會嫌你命賣得不夠徹底

你愛的人可能不愛你，但你卻不愛愛你的人，或你跟他都很相愛但因為他有老婆你有老公所以辦法相知相守，或是你跟他很相愛也再一起了，偏偏你沒有辦法忍受他的不修邊幅，或他沒有辦法忍受你愛亂買東西

So, What exactly are you looking for?

or simply just stop looking for it/he/she/them.

Let "it" be a part of your life.

Life still goes on without your expecations, which means that you still need a travel partner, a team member for project, a boss who gives you wages, and someone who is the one but not the perfect one(or you can choose to be single, anyway).

But I have to say, there're some secret kinds of rules in this universe.

One of them is that "Without the expectations, life will surprise you all the time!"